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04/15/06

Random Ranting About Global Parenting

Posted by : Mo in Korea Adoption Blog at 04:00 am , 521 words, 131 views  
Categories: Random
It’s funny how parenthood changes your perspective on the world. Because I studied political science in college, I have always paid more attention to politics than the average American, but you start to look at things in a different way…or at least I do.

I am a news-aholic. I listen to NPR every time I’m in the car, watch the evening news and scan the newspaper every evening when I get home. I grumble to myself when I’m reading and, on occasion, I actually find myself arguing with the radio.

After 9-11, I was just like the rest of the nation. I was glued to the television coverage. I watched it day in and day out – soaking in all the new information and filing it away for lunch time discussions. My thoughts revolved entirely around the present. The future still seemed very far away.

Now, my son is here. I listen to the news and I am equally horrified by the things that are happening in the world. However, instead of being horrified about what is happening now, I am horrified by what it means for the future. I listen to good news with a sigh of relief. Every decision that I make and I everything that happens makes a difference in his future – from the school levy to the threat of war. It’s an awesome responsibility.

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Sometimes, I get tired of hearing people tell me that they aren’t concerned what’s happening between Taiwan and China, who cares about the Palestinians, what does Africa have to do with me… The whole world is so interconnected now that the smallest no-name country has the ability to change everything with one action. Hostilities between nations on the other side of the world can lead to our children having to fight a war when they are adults. I don’t feel that I can afford to sit back and ride out the waves anymore. There is no room for apathy. Decisions that I make or my contemporaries make are going to shape the world in which my son lives. I figure that I have a global family so I should live in the global world.

This is one of my soap box messages. People tend to avoid the whole subject of world responsibility when I’m around. Once I get started…you can’t make me stop. I have trouble tolerating complaints from people who don’t vote, don’t make their voices heard… You can’t complain about a result if you don’t participate in the process. If I don’t agree with the way you are participating, I will argue with you, but I will respect you because you are participating. How can you not participate in the process when you know your child’s future is at stake?

I don’t have any plans to move mountains and I don’t expect anyone else to do it either. I plan to carry my handful of earth and hope that other people take their handful of earth – that’s how you move a mountain.

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Comment from: Sandra Hanks Benoiton [Member] Email · http://international.adoptionblogs.com/
I clearly remember a February morning in 1971. I'd lost a number of friends and relatives in Vietnam, and just moments before had given birth to a male child. From that minute on I worried about every conflict everywhere and the potential for each to explode into something that could end up with someone putting my son's life on the line.
I've always been an activist, but this gut-grabbing fear was a whole new thing.
He's thirty-four now, and thankfully has never been shot at.
Now I have a three-year old son, but live in one of those small no-name countries that will, hopefully, not involve itself in big schemes to take over the world.
I love your mountain-moving method. My cynical old heart warms to that.
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Comment from: Jan Baker [Member] Email · http://birthfamily-search.adoptionblogs.com/
Wow, I like that mountain-moving theory too. I subscribe to the "If you aren't part of the solution, you are part of the problem." theory too.

Unless we are willing to stand up for whatever we believe in, we have little room to whine and complain.

PermalinkPermalink 04/15/06 @ 15:29
Comment from: mommavia [Member] Email
Right on...being a MArine Wife (who is shortly sending her husband off for the 2nd time for the recent conflict) it warms my heart to know that there are people out there who are aware of the world! Whether you support the decisions of our President and Congress it doesn't matter...the fact that you are aware of the possibilities for our children does.

Thanks for reminding us all to be alert and global.
PermalinkPermalink 04/15/06 @ 17:38
Comment from: felice [Member] Email
Great blog by the way, I've been reading it for several weeks. Your post spurred me to finally register for comments.

From a parenting perspective I agree that it's a good idea to be aware and integrated in the world and politics.

From a personal political perspective it's in my interest that people who don't agree with my political worldview stay apathetic and uninvolved. Apathetic enemies are the best enemies to have after all.

This all has to do with choosing sides and making moral judgements - which is something that some people eschew but those who are involved in politics always must do. We decide who we support and who we oppose and teach our children the reasons why, and how to decide on their own (if we're doing our job as parents and not simply indoctrinating them, which I don't think is a good thing).

I also think that there is a tendency towards relativism in our (U.S.) society, which in my opinion is not a value to be prized, at least as it concerns geo-politics.

Just my 2 cents.
Nick
PermalinkPermalink 04/15/06 @ 19:10
Comment from: AdelaideDupont [Member] Email
Hi Nick.

I don't really know about relativism and geopolitics.

In some cases your view is valid like when the culture is doing something universally bad like female genital mutilation.

I will have to think some more, but I do understand what you mean.

My family has always been good at taking sides and explaining the reasons behind them. I can talk about my views if I want to and need to and I can stand behind it if I have to. Even if it's my life in the balance.

Isn't it great living in a middle power?
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